Issue 26

A Few New Rules of Engagement

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Table of Contents

Opening Salvo

For years, companies have preached the importance of workplace culture, team bonding, and collaboration. But as work continues to evolve, so do employees’ expectations. The reality? Many of the traditional workplace norms we once took for granted—like building deep friendships with coworkers or feeling secure in how remote work policies are applied—are no longer guaranteed. And that’s creating new challenges for both employees and employers.

Take workplace friendships. Employees are reporting that they care less about making friends at work—not because they’re disengaged, but because the way we work has changed. High turnover, layoffs, and remote work have made it harder to form lasting connections. The takeaway? People are prioritizing personal lives over professional social circles, and the responsibility of engagement is shifting away from casual friendships toward leadership-driven clarity and purpose.

Then there’s the return-to-office debate. Some employees are being allowed to work remotely while others are required to come in—often without a clear explanation why. When workplace flexibility is based on inconsistent criteria, it doesn’t just create frustration; it erodes trust in leadership and drives high performers elsewhere. If companies want RTO to succeed, transparency and fairness in policy application are non-negotiable.

And what happens when employees push back? Retaliation remains a real risk. Despite legal protections, many employees fear speaking up because they’ve seen what happens to those who do. Policies mean nothing if they’re not enforced, and employees who find themselves on the wrong end of retaliation must know how to protect themselves—because hoping it’ll just "work itself out" is not a strategy.

The workplace is shifting. Employees are adapting. Leaders who want to build a strong workforce need to ask themselves: Are we evolving with the times, or just doubling down on outdated practices?

Did You See This?

Work Friends? Employees Say, "Not a Priority."

The office best friend era is fading, and employees aren’t looking back. A recent report highlights that fewer workers see workplace friendships as essential, marking a shift in how employees engage with their jobs and colleagues. While this might seem like a minor cultural shift, it signals deeper changes in employee expectations, engagement, and workplace dynamics.

Why Are Workplace Friendships Declining?

  • Blurred Work-Life Boundaries: Employees are prioritizing personal time and relationships outside of work, especially in remote and hybrid settings.

  • Structural Instability: According to Glassdoor, remote work, high turnover, and layoffs are making it harder to form workplace friendships—employees simply don’t have the same long-term colleagues to build connections with.

  • Increased Job Mobility (For a Reason): Employees aren’t job-hopping just for the sake of it. Many leave due to stagnant wages, poor leadership, or limited growth opportunities—making long-term workplace friendships a casualty of systemic issues.

  • Evolving Workplace Culture: Organizations that once encouraged strong social bonds at work have shifted toward a more transactional approach, emphasizing performance and efficiency over connection.

What This Means for Leaders

  1. Engagement ≠ Socialization – Employees still want meaningful work and recognition, but they’re no longer relying on workplace friendships to feel connected. Build engagement through clear communication, purpose-driven work, and strong leadership.

  2. Rethink Team-Building Efforts – Traditional happy hours and forced social events aren’t the answer. Foster collaboration by creating psychological safety and ensuring employees feel valued for their contributions.

  3. Fix the Real Issues – If employees aren’t sticking around long enough to build friendships, the bigger concern isn’t their lack of interest in socializing—it’s why they don’t see long-term value in staying. Address retention, leadership quality, and growth opportunities first.

This isn’t about disengagement—it’s about evolution. Employees are redefining what work means to them, and leadership must adjust accordingly. Work friendships can be great, but they’re no longer the glue holding teams together. Strong leadership, meaningful work, and clear expectations? Those will always be non-negotiable.

Remote Work Privilege: Who Gets to Stay Home in an RTO World?

The return-to-office (RTO) debate isn’t just about whether employees should be in the office—it’s about who gets to work remotely and why. WorkLife reports that many companies enforcing RTO policies are making case-by-case exceptions, creating disparities that can impact morale, retention, and workplace equity.

The Inequities of Hybrid Work

Not all employees have the same flexibility when it comes to remote work. Some of the biggest inconsistencies include:

  • Role-Based Privilege: Corporate and knowledge workers often receive remote work privileges, while frontline employees and support staff must remain in-person.

  • Performance-Based Exceptions: High performers or “critical talent” may be allowed to work remotely while others are required to be in the office.

  • Management Discretion: Without clear guidelines, some managers grant remote work privileges selectively, leading to perceptions of favoritism.

The Risks of Unclear Remote Work Policies

When companies make RTO decisions inconsistently, employees may:

  • Feel resentment: Employees forced to return while others work remotely may view the policy as unfair.

  • Question leadership transparency: Without clear guidelines, workers may feel that RTO decisions are arbitrary.

  • Seek more flexible employers: Talented employees who value remote work may leave for companies offering clear and equitable policies.

How Employers Can Create Fair Remote Work Policies

  • Standardize Remote Work Criteria: Establish clear eligibility guidelines based on job function, not just individual discretion.

  • Ensure Transparency: Communicate why certain roles are eligible for remote work while others are not.

  • Monitor Employee Sentiment: Use surveys and feedback channels to assess whether employees feel remote work policies are fair.

RTO isn’t just about whether employees return to the office—it’s about creating a consistent, transparent, and equitable approach to remote work.

Remote Work Privilege: Who Gets to Stay Home in an RTO World?

Talent Management 101 (TM101)

Retaliation: Part 2 (Part 1 ICYMI)

What Is Retaliation?

Retaliation occurs when an employer takes adverse action against an employee for engaging in a legally protected activity, such as filing a complaint, reporting misconduct, or participating in an investigation. Retaliation can take many forms, including demotion, termination, negative performance reviews, exclusion from key projects, or increased scrutiny that wasn’t present before.

How to Protect Yourself Against Retaliation

Know Your Company’s Policies: Start by reviewing your employee handbook to understand your organization's stance on retaliation, including formal procedures for reporting concerns. Many handbooks outline:

  • The definition of retaliation

  • Steps to file a complaint

  • How HR should handle investigations

  • Protections employees have

What If There’s No Clear Guidance—or If Policies Aren’t Being Followed?

Lack of a Policy: If your organization doesn’t have a clear anti-retaliation policy, refer to federal protections under laws such as:

  • Title VII of the Civil Rights Act (protecting against discrimination-related retaliation)

  • The Occupational Safety and Health Act (OSHA) (protecting employees who report workplace safety violations)

  • The Whistleblower Protection Act (for federal employees reporting misconduct)

Company Fails to Act: If HR is dismissive or complicit in the retaliation:

  • Escalate the issue to senior leadership or legal counsel

  • Consider filing a complaint with external agencies like the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) or the Department of Labor (DOL)

Before escalating externally, consult an employment attorney or labor rights advocate to ensure you have sufficient evidence and understand the best course of action.

Why This Matters

Retaliation can derail careers, create toxic workplace cultures, and erode trust in leadership. Understanding your rights, documentation strategies, and reporting options is key to protecting yourself and ensuring accountability within your organization.

If you suspect retaliation, don’t wait—get informed, take action, and protect your career.

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